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Hello. I’m Hiro from Full Body Tracking Lab.
Today, let me give you a piece of my mind.
This is for people who come to VRChat specifically looking for an “osatou” (romantic VR partner).
Let me be blunt: you’re going about it wrong.
VRChat isn’t a dating app. It’s a social space where people gather around shared interests. When you come with the sole purpose of finding romance, you miss everything else VRChat has to offer.
You end up evaluating every conversation as “could this person be the one?” instead of genuinely enjoying the moment. That desperation shows, and it pushes people away.
The people who find meaningful connections in VRChat are the ones who weren’t looking for them. They were busy enjoying worlds, building things, attending events, learning new skills. And along the way, they naturally formed deep bonds with others.
Focus on doing things you genuinely enjoy first. Get involved in communities that match your interests. Friendships and deeper connections will follow naturally when you’re being authentic rather than hunting.
Stop treating VRChat like a fishing pond. Start treating it like the incredible creative social space it actually is.
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